“Umwana w'izuba kandi wishimye ni umwana ushobora kwigenga.Afite ubushobozi bwo guhangana n'ingorane zose mu buzima no kubona umwanya we muri sosiyete. ”Nigute ushobora guhinga umwana ufite izuba ryinshi mumitekerereze kandi akitandukanya numwijima??Kugirango tubigereho, twakusanyije urukurikirane rwibitekerezo bikora cyane kubuhanga bukuru bwababyeyi kubabyeyi.
1. Gutoza abana ubushobozi bwo kuba bonyine
Abashinzwe imitekerereze ya muntu bavuga ko kumva umutekano atari ukwishingikiriza.Niba umwana akeneye amarangamutima ashyushye kandi atajegajega, agomba no kwiga kuba wenyine, nko kumureka akaguma mucyumba cyumutekano wenyine.
Kugira ngo yumve ko afite umutekano, umwana ntabwo akeneye byanze bikunze ababyeyi kuba bahari igihe cyose.Nubwo adashobora kukubona, azamenya mumutima we ko uhari.Kubikenewe bitandukanye byabana, abantu bakuru bakeneye "gusubiza" aho "guhaza" byose.
2. Guhaza abana kurwego runaka
Birakenewe gushiraho ibihimbano bimwe na bimwe, kandi ibyifuzo byabana ntibishobora kubahirizwa nta shiti.Ikindi gisabwa kugirango umuntu yishimye ni uko umwana ashobora kwihanganira gusubira inyuma no gutenguha mubuzima.
Gusa iyo umwana asobanukiwe ko kugera kubintu runaka bitaterwa nicyifuzo cye, ahubwo biterwa nubushobozi bwe, arashobora kubona umunezero wimbere n'ibyishimo.
Umwana akimara gusobanukirwa uku kuri, ububabare azagabanuka.Ntugomba buri gihe guhaza ibyifuzo byumwana wawe.Ikintu cyiza cyo gukora ni ugutebya gato.Kurugero, niba umwana ashonje, urashobora kumureka agategereza iminota mike.Ntukemere ibyo umwana wawe asaba byose.Kwanga bimwe mubyifuzo byumwana wawe bizamufasha kubona amahoro yo mumutima.
Kwemera ubu bwoko bwamahugurwa "adashimishije" mumuryango bizafasha abana kwihanganira imitekerereze ihagije kugirango bahure nibibazo mubuzima bwabo bw'ejo hazaza.
3. Kuvura ubukonje iyo abana barakaye
Iyo umwana arakaye, inzira ya mbere ni ukuyobya ibitekerezo bye no gushaka uburyo bwo kumujyana mucyumba cye kugira ngo arakare.Hatariho abamwumva, we ubwe azaceceka buhoro.
Igihano gikwiye, kandi ukurikire kugeza imperuka.Ingamba zo kuvuga "oya": Aho kuvuga oya yumye, sobanura impamvu idakora.Nubwo umwana adashobora kubyumva, arashobora kumva kwihangana kwawe no kumwubaha.
Ababyeyi bagomba kumvikana, kandi umwe ntashobora kuvuga yego undi oya;mugihe ubuza ikintu kimwe, umuhe umudendezo wo gukora ikindi.
4. Reka abikore
Reka umwana akore ibyo ashoboye hakiri kare, kandi azarushaho gukora cyane mugihe kizaza.Ntugakabye ibintu kumwana, vugana numwana, ufate ibyemezo kumwana, mbere yo gufata inshingano, urashobora kubitekerezaho, wenda umwana ashobora kubikora wenyine.
Icyo utavuga: “Ntushobora, ntushobora gukora ibi!”Reka umwana “gerageza ikintu gishya”.Rimwe na rimwe, abantu bakuru babuza umwana gukora ikintu gusa kubera ko “atabikoze”.Niba ibintu atari bibi, reka umwana wawe abigerageze.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Jun-06-2023